SAMPLES OF EMAILS EMOTION DETECTIVE SENT TO TRY TO BAIT MY FRIEND FOR ONLY 1 REASON, THE BAIT DIDN'T WORK.
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<MY FRIENDS NAME>, i have a request for a video for my friend's brother. Imagine that, we were talking one day and she told me about her brother, whom i never met, and about his wife, and her toxic behaviors during the Holidays, and how her family hates her, that his wife is trying to separate him from his family etc.
My friend had no clue about narcissism, that there is a name for her brother's wife's behaviors.
So... i told her about NPD, and she started doing a research online, and i gave her some links. She was very excited about it, and impressed with my knowledge. :) She felt relief that it was an actual name for this, and a lot of other people suffered from the same kind of abuse. She couldn't wait to tell her mother and father about it, and then the brother. And I was happy i could help too. The wife caused a lot of destruction in the family, and her brother is so scared he will follow all her orders and whims to appease her.
Well, after the holidays were over we met and i asked her about her breaking the news to her brother that his wife has a mental disorder. Here's the problem, i don't think he understands what's going on with her, and wants to stay married to her. The problem is she got pregnant again and had a baby half a year ago, the third one, to keep him married to her. So three Minor children are involved.
So, i was gonna search for appropriate videos for his situation on youtube but cant find any.
I would like to ask you to think of making a video tailored to his situation, so i can give my friend the link to listen to it.
He's a complete newbie, but has experienced plenty of abuse from her, so he will identify everything you say. Really think about what to say to a guy like that, he's intelligent, in his thirties, with a young family and a toxic wife, also in her thirties. Whether to stay or divorce, and if not divorce then how to take on his toxic wife, maybe the gray rock method, etc. She told him that if he leaves she's gonna make sure he's never going to see his kids again. But she is not with money, but my friend is and his family, and they can afford a good lawyer.
I think the video should cover the basics about narcissism, the flawed loop, the lack of empathy, that its incurable, etc. And what to do with minor children, three of them. And anything you as an expert who wrote books on this topic thinks will help and is appropriate to this situation.
It's up to you, no rush whatsoever but would be nice if you could do that.
Do let me know.
Thanks, Agnes
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My friend had no clue about narcissism, that there is a name for her brother's wife's behaviors.
So... i told her about NPD, and she started doing a research online, and i gave her some links. She was very excited about it, and impressed with my knowledge. :) She felt relief that it was an actual name for this, and a lot of other people suffered from the same kind of abuse. She couldn't wait to tell her mother and father about it, and then the brother. And I was happy i could help too. The wife caused a lot of destruction in the family, and her brother is so scared he will follow all her orders and whims to appease her.
Well, after the holidays were over we met and i asked her about her breaking the news to her brother that his wife has a mental disorder. Here's the problem, i don't think he understands what's going on with her, and wants to stay married to her. The problem is she got pregnant again and had a baby half a year ago, the third one, to keep him married to her. So three Minor children are involved.
So, i was gonna search for appropriate videos for his situation on youtube but cant find any.
I would like to ask you to think of making a video tailored to his situation, so i can give my friend the link to listen to it.
He's a complete newbie, but has experienced plenty of abuse from her, so he will identify everything you say. Really think about what to say to a guy like that, he's intelligent, in his thirties, with a young family and a toxic wife, also in her thirties. Whether to stay or divorce, and if not divorce then how to take on his toxic wife, maybe the gray rock method, etc. She told him that if he leaves she's gonna make sure he's never going to see his kids again. But she is not with money, but my friend is and his family, and they can afford a good lawyer.
I think the video should cover the basics about narcissism, the flawed loop, the lack of empathy, that its incurable, etc. And what to do with minor children, three of them. And anything you as an expert who wrote books on this topic thinks will help and is appropriate to this situation.
It's up to you, no rush whatsoever but would be nice if you could do that.
Do let me know.
Thanks, Agnes
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| SENT ON JAN 6 2017 | ||||
I know you have, this is why i requested the video from you. I didn't watch these particular videos because i dont relate, but i do have an idea about the dynamics within the family.
If there is a single one video that best fits my friend's brother's situation, that you've already made then please send me a link to it.
You see, i can't really talk to her brother directly because my friend is also my client. She has done her research but i don't know what she found. Her brother is a busy professional, not the type to hang on youtube for hours. From what i know he decided to stay in the marriage for his family. But you and i know this isn't a marriage nor a family, and in my opinion, he should leave while he is still in his thirties and find a healthy woman for him. Children will suffer less in the process, as you said, because they will be the narc's play. But he needs to understand that.
I told Lauren what his brother needs to do is start documenting all the abuse, start making videos, record conversations, etc etc.
So if there is a video of yours that speaks that to a guy in his situation, that would be great. If not, i understand. If you ever had the time to think about it, and make a custom video like this, please let me know..
Thnx, Agnes
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| SENT ON JAN 7 2017 | ||||
<MY FRIENDS NAME>, you know your stuff, thank you for an extensive analysis.
I was thinking I could suggest it to Lauren that her brother contact you for paid consultation instead of a clueless expensive lawyer. It's up to them though.
I know very little about him, all I know is his wife is a low end simple narc. She's alienating him from the kids, calling him names (asshole) in front of them, basically smear campaigning him at home. She's also trying to separate him from his family, his parents and sister. She wouldn't allow him to visit during holidays.
His family has been telling him to divorce her asap for a long time.
My position here is I like Lauren, she's a great woman, and this is why I try to help, that's all. I don't know her brother besides her words.
You're right, he should do the work, but I thought maybe one correctly made video would spark his attention. There's a lot of crap out there, with incorrect advise, a lot of nonsense.
Personally I don't believe the current theory on narcissism is correct, it's an artificial concept.
Thanks <MY FRIENDS NAME> and have a great weekend.
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| SENT ON JAN 7 2017 | ||||
Ok, I will give your email address to Lauren on Tuesday when I see her, and a link to your channel, and tell her you're a published author, with links to Amazon, etc. and that you're willing to have a consultation with him. And she will give it to her brother.
That's where you take it from there, it's between you and her brother.
I'll let you know on Tuesday.
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1 OF THE ORIGINAL FORWARDED EMAILS ABOUT EMOTION DET TRYING TO BAIT MY FRIEND FOR 1 REASON, THE ONLY THING SHE COULD DO W/IT.
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From: Agnieszka Anna <intoil@icloud.com>
Date: Fri, Jan 6, 2017 at 11:34 AM
Subject: Re: A special request
To: <MY FRIENDS NAME, EMAIL>
From: Agnieszka Anna <intoil@icloud.com>
Date: Fri, Jan 6, 2017 at 11:34 AM
Subject: Re: A special request
To: <MY FRIENDS NAME, EMAIL>
I know you have, this is why i requested the video from you. I didn't watch these particular videos because i dont relate, but i do have an idea about the dynamics within the family.
If there is a single one video that best fits my friend's brother's situation, that you've already made then please send me a link to it.
You see, i can't really talk to her brother directly because my friend is also my client. She has done her research but i don't know what she found. Her brother is a busy professional, not the type to hang on youtube for hours. From what i know he decided to stay in the marriage for his family. But you and i know this isn't a marriage nor a family, and in my opinion, he should leave while he is still in his thirties and find a healthy woman for him. Children will suffer less in the process, as you said, because they will be the narc's play. But he needs to understand that.
I told Lauren what his brother needs to do is start documenting all the abuse, start making videos, record conversations, etc etc.
So if there is a video of yours that speaks that to a guy in his situation, that would be great. If not, i understand. If you ever had the time to think about it, and make a custom video like this, please let me know..
Thnx, Agnes
Sent from my iPad
Sent from my iPad
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